Sunday, November 30, 2025

Writers on What Provides Them Hope for the Human-Animal Relationship


Fashionable authors of books about animals share what provides them hope for our relationship with canine, cats, and different animals. Bonus episode of The Pawsitive Publish in Dialog.

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Writers speak about what brings them hope for the human-dog, human-cat, and human-animal bond.

This can be a bonus episode that includes Patricia McConnell PhD, Jean Donaldson, Marc Bekoff PhD, and all the writers who took half in Bark! Fest, the e book pageant for animal lovers. Collectively they share their insights on what’s trigger for hope. Bark! Fest celebrated the launch of my e book Bark! The Science of Serving to Your Anxious, Fearful, or Reactive Canine, which is out now.

Just a few years again, I heard one in every of my favorite authors converse at an internet literary pageant. Amin Maalouf is a member of the Academie Francaise and the creator of novels together with Samarkand and The Rock of Tanios. He mentioned, “I feel the responsibility of a author is to have lucidity and hope. For those who unfold despair, it’s greatest to not converse in any respect.” So that is what made me suppose to ask this query of everybody.

Hope for our relationship with canine, cats, and different animals

The books can be found from all good bookstores together with Bookshop (which helps impartial bookstores within the US) and my Amazon retailer

Patricia B. McConnell

The Schooling of Will and The Different Finish of the Leash.

Canine?!! I’ve so many solutions to that and we lined a few of them. This transformation in perspective and this new compassion and this science, us utilizing actually good science to grasp our canine and drop out of the people as canine dominant primates mannequin. 

However actually, it is simply canine, simply, they only by no means cease superb me. They only by no means, ever, ever cease.

I simply posted on Fb a few undertaking {that a} buddy of mine, Melissa McCue McGrath, I feel she could be listening. She has been part of educating canine to search out the eggs of the spotter lanternfly, which is an extremely devastating invasive insect.

I imply, they only by no means, ever cease giving and giving and giving. So canine.

Jean Donaldson

The Tradition Conflict.

I believed so much about this, and I maintain coming again to the demand and the starvation on the market for, Zazie, for books like yours, the place the central concept is happiness of canine and cats and the brand new e book that you simply’re about to launch. What we’re right here for is their feeling of security on the earth. No one ought to must stay with concern.

Culture Clash by Jean Donaldson

Approach again within the day, the books have been all about learn how to management your canine. It is obedience. Obedience mainly oppresses them. Folks don’t desire that anymore, which is, oh my gosh, what a terrific signal.

They need their canine to have good lives. They need their canine to, after all, to assist them match into our world fairly than to simply be underneath our thumbs.

Zazie Todd PhD

Bark! The Science of Serving to Your Anxious, Fearful, or Reactive Canine.  

How many individuals need to be taught extra about their canine and learn how to assist their canine. And actually, all of the individuals who’ve come and signed up for Bark! Fest and all the superb authors who’re participating in it as a result of all people is so eager to be taught, to listen to all people discuss, and it is simply unbelievable.

Bark! by Zazie Todd

It brings me numerous hope.

Marc Bekoff, PhD 

Canine Demystified and The Emotional Lives of Animals.

Zazie hit it. All of the questions that come into me that over time have turn out to be far more refined, which signifies that at the least I feel an increasing number of individuals are studying an increasing number of about canine.

The Emotional Lives of Animals by Marc Bekoff

And what provides me hope is after I ask folks a query about their canine and so they say they do not know. As a result of I wrote an essay referred to as the extra I do know, the extra I say I do not know.

It is not meant to be off placing that it is so complicated. I imply, it’s extra complicated than lots of people make it out to be. However I really like that an increasing number of individuals are asking ethological questions, if you’ll.

So I simply say go to a canine park, pull out your iPhone or no matter factor you carry, and so they take movies, they analyze them and so they ship them to me. And, I adore it. 

And I’ve a complete lot of individuals scent marking patterns and humping and mounting patterns since you’re not going to get a federal grant to check humping and mounting.

However actually that is what provides me hope, is how many individuals. I imply, due to all of the work that you simply all do and different contributors on this collection are placing it out to the general public and individuals are getting keenly .

And the underside line for me is that the extra you realize, the higher that shall be, the canine human relationship.

Cat Warren

What the Canine Is aware of.  

Properly, I imply, I can solely second what Zazie and Mark mentioned. And I see it really on daily basis when, typically once we’re simply driving and an increasing number of after I see an individual strolling with a canine, you’ll be able to really see the connection between them. 

What the Dog Knows by Cat Warren

And it feels as though–now bear in mind, it is a small portion of the entire canine population–but I really can see the progress in folks once they’re going out with their canine. They’re extra related or they’re on harness or the canine are being allowed to smell and, and discover slightly bit. 

So all of these issues, after which one last factor is that this science is admittedly fascinating and we’re beginning to be taught and canine coaching is definitely getting higher at that form of higher finish.

Ade Schoon, who’s a wonderful coach within the Netherlands and has carried out a ton of labor and I really like this quote, she mentioned typically that she will virtually see a canine considering, “Is that each one you need me to do? I can achieve this far more”.

Proper? And I feel that that is actually hopeful.

Alexis Devine

I Am Bunny.  

I imply, each time I meet a brand new canine, I really feel hopeful as a result of I realized one thing new. You understand, I really feel like a part of being human is simply studying and rising, and canine have turn out to be such a particular and integral a part of my life that I now cannot cease studying. It is all I need to do.

I Am Bunny by Alexis Devine

And so I am hopeful that by means of my platform, I may also help to teach and encourage folks to have slightly bit extra empathy and to do impartial analysis about how we are able to greatest help non people as captive animals.

Teresa J. Rhyne

Poppy within the Wild

I feel stuff like this provides me hope for the canine human relationship to simply know that, you realize, individuals are caring an increasing number of about canine, caring about studying about canine and treating canine as canine.

Poppy in the Wild by Teresa J Rhyne

And to offer a shout out to your e book, Zazie. Studying it actually helped me with Poppy as a result of Poppy’s a really nervous form of canine. She loves to simply be house. She loves to simply be together with her folks.

And I feel we have been slightly bit like, okay, how can we assist her recover from this? How can we assist her recover from this? As a substitute of what Alexis simply mentioned, and what you say within the e book too, like, we gotta simply let her be her. And if that is what she’s snug with, then that is what she’s snug with, you realize.

And I am in all probability not a great affect on her as a result of I am not snug with crowds both. So I am like, I get it, I get it. Let’s keep house. 

And yeah, so I look again even to after I was a child. I’ve all the time been a canine lover, however the way in which our canine have been handled then could be very totally different than the way in which they’re handled now.

Simply in that timeframe. Okay, that is 50 years. But it surely’s simply in that timeframe.

I feel we have realized a lot extra about canine and we deal with them so significantly better. Though rescue continues to be. I imply, our shelter system continues to be such an enormous downside.

However I’ve hope. I’ve hope.

Lili Chin

Kitty Language.

What provides me hope is that there are all these fantastic books out. There’s much more materials, there’s much more academic info obtainable now than earlier than.

Kitty Language by Lili Chin

Mikel Delgado PhD

Play With Your Cat!.

For me, it is that extra folks than ever are advocating for his or her cats wellbeing. Like the sphere of animal behaviour, of cat conduct, particularly is rising and extra folks need to be concerned.

Play With Your Cat! by Mikel Delgado

So it is all good.

Lucy Hoile

the e book your cat needs you’ll learn.  

I haven’t got a lot so as to add. I simply suppose that general there’s extra curiosity in cats, and naturally, that has its positives and negatives, however I feel that there are extra folks thinking about making their cats completely happy.

the book your cat wishes you would read by Lucy Hoile

They need to know, does my cat love me? Is my cat completely happy?

Pilley Bianchi

For the Love of Canine, illustrated by Calum Heath.

Oh, nicely, to start with, the truth that folks love their canine. We’re actually seeing numerous that now, simply globally, and prior to now decade, we have had extra analysis about canine than any a part of our historical past.

For the Love of Dog by Pilley Bianchi

So that is actually pointing us in the appropriate course. And so I imagine in science and I imagine within the mystical, and people are coming collectively.

Wendy Lyons Sunshine

Tender Paws.

Seeing all of the totally different approaches that practitioners are taking now which are actually weaving in understanding of trauma, understanding of attachment, understanding of neurobiology, understanding ache that is undiagnosed. 

Tender Paws by Wendy Lyons Sunshine

There’s a lot wealth of data that we’re getting, and like Carri right here has helped contribute to this physique of data too. Simply a lot we’re studying that we are able to convey to bear to assist.

Carri Westgarth PhD

The Glad Canine Proprietor.  

I used to be considering very related issues, actually. You understand, that better consciousness and enthusiasm that canine homeowners appear to have now. They are surely attempting to do the very best for his or her canine.

The Happy Dog Owner by Carri Westgarth

They may not all the time get the appropriate info, however the availability of apparatus now for canine and their homeowners and academic instruments comparable to this webinar is simply phenomenal in comparison with what it was 20 years in the past.

Simply suppose now, you realize, 20 years in the past, all the canine that used to stroll round on skinny choke chains, and now just about each canine you see is on a harness.

And there is so many several types of harnesses when there was mainly one for a very long time.

It is simply there’s a lot extra alternative on the market for canine homeowners who’re actually attempting to do the very best for his or her canine.

Philipp Schott DVM

Eleven Huskies: A Dr. Bannerman Vet Thriller.  

There’s simply a lot curiosity now and you realize, canine are not considered as a baby’s pet or one thing within the yard or in lots of instances, one thing that, you realize, a creature that has a practical worth.

Eleven Huskies by Philipp Schott DVM

Actually the motion of pets, canine particularly, cats additionally, into the centre of human households is one thing. I have been in apply 34 years now.

You understand, 34 years in the past, if anyone mentioned mother or dad in reference to their canine, that may have resulted in snickers. Folks would have felt very self aware. It was very uncommon. 

It’s the norm now. Folks perceive these should not like human youngsters. Proper. There’s a distinction, however the change in language speaks to a change in how we worth them and the way we view them. And that may solely be a constructive.

Louisa Scarr

Gallows Wooden.  

Yeah, after I noticed this query was coming, I had a protracted give it some thought. And sometimes if you look on the web you get lots of people both ranting about canine or a lot of, you realize, within the feedback part there’s terrible stuff or canine trainers who’re trainers.

Gallows Wood by Louisa Scarr

However really after I exit on my stroll with Max, I expertise the other. I expertise some actually welcoming, pleasant individuals who completely happy to talk and speak about their canine. And you realize, I do know the names of the canine, I don’t know what they’re referred to as, however I do know their canine names and a few actually beautiful canine.

And the bulk are off lead, underneath management off lead and completely happy to play with Max. And it is a actually constructive interplay. 

So I feel that offers me form of hope for the longer term in that individuals are smart. We do have frequent sense. We all know what we’re doing with our canine. And the vast majority of the interactions I’ve very constructive.

Antony Johnston

The Canine Sitter Detective Takes the Lead.

So my reply is definitely similar to Philipp’s and Louisa’s, alongside the identical strains.

One of many causes I am very thinking about your e book, Zazie, is as a result of one in every of my previous lurchers was a really reactive canine, to the purpose that we needed to muzzle him once we walked him in public. And because of this,
we noticed numerous totally different approaches to canine coaching. 

And one of many issues that offers me hope is that I’ve observed Within the final 5 to 10 years, detrimental reinforcement coaching is admittedly on the outs, like virtually no person does it anymore. And it is all about constructive reinforcement coaching, which we discovered to be the reply with our canine,
with each of our lurchers. 

You understand, I feel it is a part of folks simply form of accepting that canine are canine, however they’ve brains, they don’t seem to be property. Like right here within the UK, canine are actually legally seen as property. If anyone steals your canine, and even abuses it or one thing, they are going to be carried out for theft as if it is property, not for any form of kidnapping or something. 

There’s lots of people preventing to vary that for the time being. Have been for years.

So I feel the pattern in direction of constructive reinforcement, I feel it simply form of reinforces that that angle is altering, and I feel that may solely be a great factor.

Sarah Chauncey

P.S. I Love You Extra Than Tuna, illustrated by Francis Tremblay.  

I feel, on the threat of bringing politics into this, that cats are saving democracy proper now. Cats and cat women of all genders. I take advantage of women as metaphorically.

PS I Love You More Than Tuna by Sarah Chauncey

I feel we’re beginning to see that. I imply, in 2024, we was once like, okay, people. People are the be all and finish all.

And it is like, can we actually imagine that our species is just like the apex of evolution? You understand, we’re actually beginning to acknowledge the sentience of different beings and their autonomy. And that offers me numerous hope.

Sassafras Patterdale (Lowrey)

Claw This Journal.

I imply I can not high that. I feel particularly as the one American in right here. Sure, please. Saving democracy.

Claw This Journal by Sassafras Patterdale (Lowrey)

However no, past that. I feel that one of many issues I feel so much about is I have been concerned in canine sports activities for 25 years, a very long time. 

After I began writing professionally about canine and cats, the response I’d get after I would speak about cat enrichment or cat coaching or cat actions of any type was typically form of this scoffing laughter and other people would simply be like, that is ridiculous. This is only one weirder factor you are doing.

And I do not get that response practically so continuously anymore. And so simply on a really private degree it is one thing that offers me lot of hope about cats and the methods through which I feel culturally, our understanding of their emotional and bodily and wishes is behind what we perceive about canine. 

However I feel we’re getting there and that is been actually thrilling to see.

Rachel Wells

Alfie the Christmas Cat.  

Properly, I agree with all that and I personally suppose Alfie would suppose he might single handedly say democracy by the way in which.

Alfie the Christmas Cat by Rachel Wells

However every thing you mentioned, I imply I really like wanting on the historical past of cats. And we have a look at the evolution and I feel that we’re virtually going again to when cats have been a bit extra worshipped and a bit extra given extra significance as a result of it appears to have dipped away a bit.

You understand, they have been gods in Egyptian occasions typically. After which we have a look at now and I feel we’re getting extra that understanding. We’re giving them extra of a voice.

We actually are taking time to not simply say oh, it is only a cat, however to correctly get to know that cat. And I feel that that is actually the fantastic factor that I hope will proceed to occur.

Rev. Sarah A. Bowen

Sacred Sendoffs.

The enjoyment of seeing a squirrel certain throughout the yard.

Sacred Sendoffs by Sarah Bowen

E.B. Bartels

Good Grief.

I really suppose social media brings me hope as a result of I joke it is the final good place on the Web when folks put up about their pet losses. It is such an exquisite house for folks to succeed in out and join.

Good Grief by E.B. Bartels

Karen Tremendous DVM

The Different Household Physician.  

So I really feel like boards like this convey me hope as a result of I really feel prefer it’s an increasing number of acknowledged how profound and intimate and inspiring these relationships may be and the way privileged we’re to have them.

The Other Family Doctor by Karen Fine

And I really feel like that is being an increasing number of acknowledged, which is fantastic.

Kristi Benson

I feel the factor that offers me hope proper now, at this time, is the actually nice work that is being carried out by my Indigenous colleagues on work that is really exterior of the canine world.

It is on actually heavy, onerous subjects. It is on Indian residential faculties and murdered and lacking Indigenous girls and ladies.

And so they’re simply doing such good work and having such good public conversations that I feel are actually bringing us all as much as a complete new normal of learn how to speak about one another and learn how to deal with one another and the way to take a look at injustices and actually cope with them in a head on method.

I used to be simply studying an article from a colleague of mine, Dr. Crystal Fraser, about Indian residential faculties and the youngsters there. And simply the varieties of conversations and the way in which she was telling this story and the way in which that she invited dialogue, I simply, I felt actually, I imply, unhappy, saddened and terrified and horrified, but additionally simply actually like motivated. 

And so I feel that seeking to the ladies round us and to the students round us who doing all of a majority of these work a few huge array of subjects, I feel that that offers me hope as a result of I instantly thought of how do now we have a majority of these conversations about canine coaching? 

How do now we have these conversations concerning the bonds that now we have between the animals in our care and the animals that now we have like, purchased and become pets that stay with us in our homes? So I suppose that is form of circuitous.

However if you requested me that query, that is the headspace I used to be in. And it did actually appear to return collectively for me.

The interview highlights have been frivolously edited for content material and magnificence.

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